Thursday, March 4, 2010


Okay so Javier talks to me when it's a good time for him ... every 2 months I'll say. So I log onto myspace today to find that his status says he is not in PR anymore, he is in Milwaukee. That's where his real mother lives.

So he has money to go see his mother, but not to come here and meet his daughter. WTF.

I have no words for how pissed I am right now. I might be wrong here, but it just really pisses me off that he will go see his mother before he comes and sees his daughter.

That is all.

On a good note, my mom told me she got me the laptop! - But cant have it till April 1st.


  1. I'm sorry. That's awful.
    I really hate to be a jerk and say it, but you know this guy is a complete loser. You know he doesn't take care of his multiple children. You know he's abusive. You know he is a liar. This shouldn't come as any sort of surprise to you.
    You're a wonderful mother and you don't deserve to be flamed at all...he does...but honey, it might be time to start getting real about who this guy is. You're too good for him, and in all reality you should probably be more concerned with protecting your daughter from him, not getting him to come around.
    Again, I'm sorry. I know this is hard for you because obviously you have really loved him. But for your sake and your daughter's, I really hope you're able to find a way to distance yourself emotionally from him.
    I wish you all the best, no matter how you decide to proceed. After all, you know better than anyone what is best for you and your sweet little girl.

  2. I agree with Bella. Every word.

    I'm glad that you're finally getting a laptop! This may be weird but I like seeing you around the bump and I miss seeing updated pictures of Mia!

  3. That guy is (1) Immature- we all know this (2) His mom is a safe place vs. you and his new baby. You and Mia are not scary, but he may just be weirded out with the idea of seeing you both. Oh well, too bad. He needs to grow up.

    I'd go with Bella's advice and just continue taking care of Mia and not be too concerned with silly ol' baby daddy right now.

    P.S. I miss you on the bump, too :)